Beautiful ladies, but mind changes as quickly as the weather.
Women are creatures very hard to study, even though many people claim they can easily read the mind of a woman. Some say that when a woman says 'No,' she means yes, and when she says 'Yes, ' she means no. Frankly speaking, it's never true, as some can stick to their word.
What I can easily compare the mind of a woman to is the weather. It changes very quickly.
At times at work, the gym, and other places, you may notice a lady smiling at you many times, showing positive signs that she likes you, but if you try to get to know her more, she will turn you down miserably.
Some ladies are very social and could easily engage you in a conversation, while others will totally ignore you when you want to start up a conversation with them.
Many ladies always had in mind that they wanted them, especially if the person keeps on smiling or greeting them. The fear of being in a similar situation kept me a stern-looking man, away from a certain beautiful lady for several months.
We met several times face-to-face, without saying anything to her. I am not rude, but all that I was avoiding was thinking that I want her. Unfortunately, I wasn't aware that I was doing something wrong and building hatred for myself.
The fact that I never greeted her or said hello made her think that I hate her or that I am a racist. Her daily negative actions toward me became my nightmare.
Her actions made me believe that I had hurt her deeply. The next thing was to find a way to make her happy or to let her know that I don't hate her. But what can I do?
This is the question. I was even scared to death to call her and speak to her, but one day, an opportunity came my way to change everything in my favour.
I met her with a cup of coffee in one hand while she was holding something else in the other hand. When she got closer to the door, she couldn't open it.
I dashed like one completing a race to open the door for her. Since then, we have now good friends. I respect her very much. This experience has been my teacher. It is never good for one to think of something negatively about someone.