A pretty lady
We often read a lot about how to be successful in dating a lady. Articles on how to get a woman of your dream, are all over the internet. The question is, do some of these tips given really help to have the best lady you ever wanted in your arms?
I'm not a casanova or a womanizer but frankly speaking, I have studied women to know what really attracts them to date a man. Many men think that putting on the best shirt, trousers, good tie to match, and stuffing wallets with a lot of money to impress, make them perfect gentlemen to attract a lady immediately.
You can be a perfect gentleman in your best clothes, but sorry to tell you that you will come home every day from work, miserable like a church mouse, without any woman looking at you or turning down your offer to go out for a drink.
The worse of it all is when in the best outfit, hoping to get a lady at a party or discotheque. You will be surprised to see a common man in simple clothes or unkempt hair (rasta) taking the most attractive lady away right in front of you.
Now let's talk about what ladies like most to see on men, they like to date. Don't be talkative and try to let women recognized you every time by talking too much. When you want to talk discuss funny things and make a lot of jokes. Ladies like that.
Be simple, kind and respectful to ladies. Give them help when you see them having a tough time over something. They like men that are considerate and helpful. They can accept your help or reject it but don't let that put you off. Try it another time.
Don't dress too rich to impress a lady. Be simple and casual but let your shoes be a very good one. Because ladies like men in good shoes. Your shoes speak or introduce you to a lady.
Have you ever heard "Repair your shoes for they speak about you?" Ladies hate men in worn-out heel shoes. If you can't repair your own shoes, what's the guarantee that you will take good care of her?
Finally, never ever be shy when talking to a lady. Be bold, look into her eyes and speak to her. That convinces a lady that you are a bold and serious person.
Never tell a friend to tell a lady that you like her. Do it yourself. When that happens, you are considered as a coward. I have got mine. Good luck to those trying.