MELINDA CAN’T TAKE IT ANY LONGER SO SHE HAS TO DIVORCE BILL GATES

 

Melinda and Bill Gates

For a very long time, I considered Melinda, the wife of Bill Gates, a very strong woman, given the fact that there are only a few women that can be brave enough to stay with a man like Bill Gates. 

In Europe and America, the media have made Bill Gates a hero and a messiah, convincing the world that the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation is improving health crises and eradicating diseases in Africa.

How can someone who hasn't studied medicine be firmly attached to the World Health Organization? And how can someone obsessed with reducing the world population to save the planet be interested in the health of citizens of third-world countries?

This doesn't sound right, yet many people till now believe Bill Gates is a good man because he is a philanthropist. Since the medical crimes of Bill Gates take place in poor countries, the developed world media don't care what he does.

If I hadn’t been to Europe, I wouldn’t have known that European and American media houses pay their journalists to write false health articles about HIV, AIDS, Ebola, nodding syndrome, and other man-made or laboratory-created diseases destroying humanity in Africa.

Melinda and her husband, Bill, under the pretext of improving living conditions and eradicating diseases in Africa, use the people as guinea pigs in experimenting with new drugs and vaccines manufactured by pharmaceutical companies in America.

There is no way that Melinda can pretend she doesn’t know what her husband does in third-world countries. In fact, all the European and American mainstream media know what Bill Gates does in third-world countries, including those in Africa, but they protect him with deceptive interviews.

On May 3, 2021, Bill and Melinda Gates announced that they are breaking up after 27 years of marriage. The Western and America published the breakup news without giving the real reason behind the divorce. 

Many of the media praised Bill Gates for devoting his time and money to heal the sick and cure diseases in Africa, but it is the same continent that, apart from malaria, HIV, AIDS, tuberculosis, Ebola, Lassa fever, nodding disease, etc., miraculously appeared from heaven to strike Africans.

Before and after the abolition of slavery, the only disease in Africa was malaria, which still exists. All the other diseases, including AIDS, Ebola, Kaposi's sarcoma, Burkitt's lymphoma, Lassa fever, nodding syndrome, etc., were artificially created in the laboratory. 

Sometimes the American and European media think Africans are fools. If all African leaders were like Muammar Khadafy, the continent wouldn’t have suffered to that extent. 

They pretend they love Africa, but it is because of the rich resources. A mother who loves her child wouldn’t allow the child to suffer slavery, apartheid, colonial brutality, and man-made diseases.

According to Bill Gates, “Over the past 27 years, we have raised three amazing children and founded a charity to help people around the world be healthier and more productive.”

“We both still believe in our mission and will continue to work together at the foundation, but we no longer believe that we can continue to grow as a couple. We ask for privacy for our family, as a new life begins for us."

Africa’s resources play a significant role in the economies of Europe and America; therefore, if slavery has been abolished, independence has sacked the colonial masters, and apartheid has fallen, America will definitely apply the ruthless method they called ‘policy’ to get whatever they are looking for on the continent.

After the 2014 Ebola pandemic in Sierra Leone, Guinea, and Liberia, the disease was constantly occurring in Congo under the nose of the World Health Organization, the US and European governments, and the World Health Organization, while the mainstream media were aiding, abetting, and supporting the medical crimes with false information that bats and bushmeat are responsible for Ebola in Africa. 

Nobody cares about the suffering of Africans. In fact, if not for Kim Jong-un of North Korea and Vladimir Putin exposing Bill Gates for experimenting with Ebola in Congo, the media wouldn’t have published it.

 

However, because Europe and America feared Ebola could reach their countries, the need to fight that deadly disease was done. 

Today, all the countries that for decades were supporting the medical crimes of the US government have violently suffered the impact of the coronavirus. 

I find it very difficult to respect European and American leaders and deceptive people like Bill Gates because I don’t see them as special. I only see them as a bunch of white-collar criminals without conscience, remorse, and integrity. 

As for Melanie, she waited for too long with that monster she calls her husband. The reason behind their separation can remain a secret; however, people are not stupid enough to not know the actual reason behind that divorce.

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10 AFRICAN REMARKABLE PROVERBS WITH A MORAL LESSON

The gentle monkey

1. Allowing the monkey to wear clothes doesn’t guarantee the animal to join the dining table. Meaning: Some people abuse their trust if you are kind to them. Don’t take a friend for a fool if he helps you every time. 

2. A man who hangs around a beautiful lady without saying anything, yet he likes her, will end up serving the guests on her wedding day. – Just be bold to tell a lady you like her if you’re interested in her. 

3. A beautiful girl without any intelligence ends up abusing herself. Her private part suffers the most. – You need to be intelligent too if you are beautiful, else you will end up sleeping with thousands of men to ruin the ‘golden box.’ 


4. Whoever presents his own head to break a coconut would not be able to partake in eating it. – This is a warning to be careful in whatever you do because some kindness may put you into very big trouble. 

5. There is no way a chicken will pass corn or maize without swallowing it. Even if the corn is too big to swallow, the beak will break it into pieces. If a friend offers you a place, be careful not to get closer to his wife because of temptation. 

6. The buttocks are like a married couple. There is constant friction between them, yet they still love and live together. – There is no marriage or relationship without a dispute. If misunderstanding comes, settle it amicably before planning to divorce.

7. Never let negative people rent a space in your head. Raise the tent and kick them out. – You have the power to resist evil influence. Don’t follow bad friends to put you in a place you never wished to be. 

8. If one finds a wallet on the road and takes all the money in it before he finds the owner, there is no reward or blessing for you. Giving the owner all his money back will reveal your honesty, for the owner to do something extraordinary for you. “This is what I did, and the owner helped me to be employed. I’m still at the same place after twelve years.” 

 9. When you are doing well in life, climbing up with success, remember to help those you are leaving behind. One day, if things go badly for you, they will remember what you did for them, and they will help you, too. – Be kind to the less fortunate ones, because no one knows tomorrow.

10. The heart of a rich man lies in his wealth, and that of the poor man lies in the faith of God. The reason poor people sleep better than the rich because they always think of their wealth. Jesus confirmed it.” It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of the needle than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God.”

DIVORCE AND SEPARATION- CAUSES MANY ARE NOT AWARE OF

Young couple cooking at home

Falling in love is a wonderful and magical experience between two people. The chemistry is strange and sometimes very complicated but the experience differs in many ways, however, the commonest are happiness, restlessness, and strong emotions. 

Falling in love with someone doesn’t always guarantee a successful marriage or living together. Frankly speaking, according to statistics, many are getting a divorce more than living together.

 

To build and support successful marriage or relationships, many partners read books written as a guide to a successful and marriage.

 

Despite hundreds of books counseling couples, lovers are constantly in pain, emotionally and psychologically affected by painful love affairs. 

 

The causes of divorces or separations vary, lack of attention, sex, cheating, quarrels, financial matters, and many others attribute to going separate ways. 

 

However; few things many never thought of as a destroyer of marriages is the lack of cooking at home and lack of prevention of early sex in teenage relationships.

 

Many couples' friendships began at school as teenagers before they settled. In principle, it is always good for people to study and know each other very well, before entering into relations or love affairs. 

 

But on moral issues entering into relationships as teenagers isn’t a wise thing to do. Children as young as thirteen and fourteen indulged in caressing and kissing. This is seen as normal in advanced countries but in Africa, it is not permitted.

 

Most of these early relationships end up in separate ways or living together but when they finally get married, love isn't as strong as before. That’s where the problems begin. In this case, the marriage doesn't go far. Why? 

 

The reason is simple and logical, both have seen their nakedness too much as teenagers to the extent that they no longer value their precious bodies as adults.

 

Since no more happiness, the essence of enjoying a happy relationship is completely ruined. Here the dignity and the worthiness of the woman have been neglected by the man. It is always the man that causes the breakup because he wants something new. 

 

Many start to cheat and stayed late at work in illicit love affairs. A woman or man may find real happiness in life, marriage, living together, or in relationships when they enter into a love affair as adults than as teenagers.

 

Any man or woman who doesn’t know how to cook before getting into a relationship or marriage may not fully enjoy the relationship. 

 

There is always a guarantee for a happy marriage when one of the partners know how to cook but if both can’t cook means the marriage may have a bleak future.

 

Imagine a family depending always on fast and tin foods. How would a husband feel after a day’s hard work, comes home to sit behind the dining table and be served with tin spaghetti with that marshy tomato sauce? Many enjoy that but that’s a health hazard.

 

A man facing such a situation may never be happy. Some may speak against it but many hide the way they feel when upset. Since he can’t live with that any longer he starts to seek his interest in other places. 

 

That’s where the cheating starts. If the one he is seeing can provide him those delicious meals he is missing from his previous partner, the relationship automatically comes to an end.

 

It is therefore very essential for both men and women to learn or know how to cook before getting into a relationship or marriage. Getting familiar with cooking isn’t a difficult issue. 

 

There are thousands of books and adult schools for cooking. The time factor is always an issue.

 

Many may not have the time to go to a cooking school after work. Here a cooking book is very useful. Just follow the instructions on how to cook and next you see the delicious meal on the dining table. 

 

You may not be perfect at your first attempt but remember practice makes a man perfect. 

 

Besides, cultivating the habit of cooking at home saves a lot of money. I am happily married for the past twenty-six years. When my wife is busy at work, I do the cooking for the children. 

 

This is the only way to share the secrets of why our marriage is stronger than ever. I am a very good cook besides my writing career.

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TEENAGE LOVE AFFAIR LEADS TO EARLY SEPARATION AND DIVORCE

 Early teenage lovers

Many couples, seen with or without children, had friendships that began at school as teenagers, before they married or settled together. 

In principle, it is always good for people to study and know each other very well before entering into relations or love affairs.

Children's and teenagers' liberty in advanced countries can’t be compared to that of African children and teenagers. 

For example, in Africa, children are severely punished when they do wrong, but in Europe or America, punishing a child could lead to many problems. One may even end up in prison for punishing their son or their own daughter.

The rate of divorce and separation is very high in advanced countries, so I looked back to review why divorce is very low in Africa. 

In Africa, it is a gross disrespect to parents when a sixteen-year-old child comes home to introduce his girlfriend or her boyfriend. However, in advanced countries, it is permitted.

Children as young as thirteen and fourteen indulged in caressing and kissing. This could go on until they go their separate ways or settle. When they finally get married, the love isn't as strong as before; in this case, the marriage doesn't go far. 

Both have seen their nakedness too much when they were teenagers, to the extent that they don't value their precious bodies any longer.

Here, the dignity and the worthiness of the woman have been neglected by the man. It is always the man who causes the breakup because he wants something new. 

A woman or man may find real happiness in life, marriage, living together, or in relationships when they enter into love affairs as adults rather than as teenagers.

That is the reason in Africa, separation and divorce are less common than in advanced countries. 

Europe, America, Japan, Korea, and other advanced countries are far ahead in development, education, and technology, compared to Africa, yet the rate of divorce, separation, and suicide is higher than in Africa.

Smoking is like a fashion among teenagers in advanced countries, but it’s less common in Africa. Teenage pregnancy is booming in Europe and America, while it’s less common in Africa. 

It's time for advanced countries to stop underestimating Africa and learn something from that continent. Africa is called a poor continent, but Europe and America forget that they made the continent poor by depending on its resources.

Marriage today, separation tomorrow: Why marriages fail and how to prevent divorce

Divorce is now very common in today's society.

Hundreds of couples stand before family and friends every weekend, especially on Sundays, making vows of love, loyalty, and lifelong commitment. The wedding day is filled with joy, celebration, and dreams of a beautiful future. 

 

Yet, after the ceremony ends and real life begins, many marriages slowly drift from happiness to confusion, conflict, and eventually separation.

 

Marriage is a journey filled not only with joy but also with pain, tragedy, uncertainty, and emotional challenges. Despite countless seminars, books, and counseling programs teaching couples how to build a happy union, many marriages still fail. The question remains: Why do so many marriages collapse?

 

1. Emotional Neglect and Lack of Quality Time

One of the leading causes of marital breakdown is emotional neglect. Couples become busy with work, children, financial responsibilities, and personal ambitions. They stop spending meaningful time together. When emotional connection fades, love becomes fragile, and resentment quietly grows.

2. Infidelity — Physical and Digital

Cheating remains one of the most painful and destructive forces in marriage. Today, infidelity is not only physical; digital cheating through secret chats, emotional attachments, and online flirtation destroys trust just as deeply. Once trust is broken, rebuilding it becomes a long and difficult journey.

3. Bitterness, Resentment, and Unresolved Conflicts

Many couples allow small issues to accumulate until they become mountains. Unresolved conflicts create bitterness, and bitterness becomes emotional poison. When partners stop communicating openly, resentment replaces affection, and the marriage slowly suffocates.

4. Unrealistic Expectations and Social Media Illusions

Social media has created false standards of love — perfect bodies, perfect homes, perfect relationships. Couples begin comparing their real lives to digital fantasies. Unrealistic expectations lead to disappointment, frustration, and emotional withdrawal.

5. Financial Stress and Poor Money Management

Money problems remain one of the top triggers of divorce worldwide. Financial pressure creates tension, blame, and insecurity. When couples do not communicate openly about finances, trust erodes and conflicts intensify.

6. Lack of Shared Purpose and Vision

A marriage without shared goals becomes directionless. When partners do not align on values, dreams, or life plans, they slowly drift apart. Love needs a mission — whether family, faith, growth, or building a future together.

7. External Influences and Toxic Advice

Family interference, friends with negative influence, and cultural pressure can weaken a marriage. When couples allow outsiders to dictate their decisions, unity breaks and conflict increases.

8. Mental Health Challenges

Depression, anxiety, trauma, and emotional instability can deeply affect a marriage. Many partners suffer silently, and without support, the relationship becomes strained. Some bitter separations have led individuals to mental institutions, while others struggle for years to recover emotionally.

9. Domestic Abuse and Control

Abuse — emotional, physical, or psychological — destroys the foundation of marriage. Control, manipulation, and intimidation create fear instead of love. No marriage can survive under violence.

10. Spiritual Disconnection

Many couples ignore spiritual guidance that promotes patience, forgiveness, humility, and love. The Holy Bible contains powerful teachings on marriage — Gen 49:4, Mal 2:14, Matt 23:30, Deut 24:5, Mark 12:23 — yet many overlook these principles. Spiritual emptiness often leads to emotional instability.

 

The Impact on Children

 

When children are involved, divorce becomes even more painful. Depending on their age, some suffer emotional trauma, academic decline, insecurity, and long-term psychological effects. A broken home often creates broken hearts.

 

Wealth Cannot Save a Marriage

 

Rich or poor, no one is immune to marital failure. Money cannot buy loyalty, respect, or emotional connection. A happy marriage is built on commitment, trust, communication, and love — not wealth or status.

 

How Can Divorce and Separation Be Prevented?

• Prioritize communication — talk honestly, listen deeply, and resolve conflicts early.

• Spend quality time together — protect your emotional connection.

• Practice forgiveness — let go of bitterness before it destroys love.

• Set shared goals — build a vision for your future as a team.

• Seek counseling early — professional guidance can save a marriage before it collapses.

• Protect your marriage from outsiders — unity must come before external opinions.

• Strengthen spiritual foundations — faith encourages patience, humility, and love.

• Choose love daily — marriage is not sustained by feelings but by commitment.

Conclusion: Love is a daily choice

 

Marriage is not destroyed overnight. It weakens slowly through neglect, resentment, and emotional distance. But just as marriages fail through daily habits, they can also be saved through daily acts of love, patience, and understanding. 

 

The greatest commandment, “Love thy neighbor as thyself,” remains the strongest foundation for a lasting marriage. When couples choose love, forgiveness, and unity every day, divorce becomes preventable, and marriage becomes a beautiful journey once again.

Men and women, which of them are the most faithful and sincere?

A cheating man caught red-handed


I write about many interesting issues, but I have never thought of writing about gender faithfulness or unfaithfulness to each other, when one day, someone asked me, "Why do most men die and leave behind their wives?" 

I couldn`t find an answer to her question, then, without a thought, I said, "Because most men are unfaithful to their partners." I was surprised she was satisfied with my answer.

But is it very true that men fall short when it comes to dishonesty? Well, many men lie and cheat on their partners, but also women. 

Most men cheat on their wives and girlfriends for several reasons, including lack of sexual satisfaction, biological problems that the woman is not aware of, but of which the man cannot speak. But with women? I keep on asking myself, "Why do they often cheat on their men?"

Are they also looking for sexual satisfaction or money? On Monday, 28 September 2009, whilst waiting at London`s Victoria Coach Station to join my bus to Dorset, a sad story caught my attention in an entertainment newspaper called "London Lite." 

The story was about a woman who was allegedly strangled by her own husband after discovering that she was having an affair with another man.

The husband, after having enough evidence, including a secret taping of 127 hours of his wife's conversations with her lover, confronted his wife, who asked for a divorce. To me, that was a very good wife. 

She did not deny her unfaithfulness but quickly asked for a divorce of which her man should have accepted the request and given her freedom.

Instead, he did the most stupid thing a man could do. Fearing the loss of his home, two children, and fortune, the jealous husband chose to kill his wife, pretending he did not know of her death. 

The court heard of his wife`s previous adulterous adventures. Marriage always turns to a different angle of diverse problems when there isn`t any transparency, honesty, and faithfulness.

Even though I know that most men die leaving their partners, I can`t really say it is because of their unfaithfulness to their partners, since women also cheat on their husbands. But it is a fact that a greater percentage of men cheat on their wives than women.