Young couple cooking at home
Falling in love is a wonderful and magical experience
between two people. The chemistry is strange and sometimes very complicated but
the experience differs in many ways, however, the commonest are happiness,
restlessness, and strong emotions.
Falling in love with someone doesn’t always guarantee a
successful marriage or living together. Frankly speaking, according to
statistics, many are getting a divorce more than living together.
To build and support successful marriage or relationships,
many partners read books written as a guide to a successful and marriage.
Despite hundreds of books counseling couples, lovers are
constantly in pain, emotionally and psychologically affected by painful love
affairs.
The causes of divorces or separations vary, lack of
attention, sex, cheating, quarrels, financial matters, and many others
attribute to going separate ways.
However; few things many never thought of as a destroyer of
marriages is the lack of cooking at home and lack of prevention of early sex in
teenage relationships.
Many couples' friendships began at school as teenagers
before they settled. In principle, it is always good for people to study and
know each other very well, before entering into relations or love
affairs.
But on moral issues entering into relationships as teenagers
isn’t a wise thing to do. Children as young as thirteen and fourteen indulged
in caressing and kissing. This is seen as normal in advanced countries but in
Africa, it is not permitted.
Most of these early relationships end up in separate ways or
living together but when they finally get married, love isn't as strong as
before. That’s where the problems begin. In this case, the marriage doesn't go
far. Why?
The reason is simple and logical, both have seen their
nakedness too much as teenagers to the extent that they no longer value their
precious bodies as adults.
Since no more happiness, the essence of enjoying a happy
relationship is completely ruined. Here the dignity and the worthiness of the
woman have been neglected by the man. It is always the man that causes the
breakup because he wants something new.
Many start to cheat and stayed late at work in illicit love
affairs. A woman or man may find real happiness in life, marriage, living
together, or in relationships when they enter into a love affair as adults than
as teenagers.
Any man or woman who doesn’t know how to cook before getting
into a relationship or marriage may not fully enjoy the relationship.
There is always a guarantee for a happy marriage when one of
the partners know how to cook but if both can’t cook means the marriage may
have a bleak future.
Imagine a family depending always on fast and tin foods. How
would a husband feel after a day’s hard work, comes home to sit behind the
dining table and be served with tin spaghetti with that marshy tomato sauce?
Many enjoy that but that’s a health hazard.
A man facing such a situation may never be happy. Some may
speak against it but many hide the way they feel when upset. Since he can’t
live with that any longer he starts to seek his interest in other places.
That’s where the cheating starts. If the one he is seeing
can provide him those delicious meals he is missing from his previous partner,
the relationship automatically comes to an end.
It is therefore very essential for both men and women to
learn or know how to cook before getting into a relationship or marriage.
Getting familiar with cooking isn’t a difficult issue.
There are thousands of books and adult schools for cooking.
The time factor is always an issue.
Many may not have the time to go to a cooking school after
work. Here a cooking book is very useful. Just follow the instructions on how
to cook and next you see the delicious meal on the dining table.
You may not be perfect at your first attempt but remember
practice makes a man perfect.
Besides, cultivating the habit of cooking at home saves a
lot of money. I am happily married for the past twenty-six years. When my wife
is busy at work, I do the cooking for the children.
This is the only way to share the secrets of why our
marriage is stronger than ever. I am a very good cook besides my writing career.